Coconut oil helps our hair growth and general health in a lot of ways. It reduces hair frizz and it’s kinda like hair sunscreen. it keeps your hair shiny and scalp lice free and much more of that good stuff. Now let’s get on with it shall we? 🙂


                   Making coconut oil is easy and there are a lot of ways you can make them at home, i just feel like i get a lot of oil from boiling.  All you will need is:


-2 cup distilled water
-1 undefined mature, brown coconut, nutmeat removed


-Small saucepan




-Kitchen sieve

-Medium saucepan



Step 1

Grate coconut meat into a bowl. You can grate as much as you would like. I use one coconut because i don’t like to store them for a long period so it remains fresh.

Step 2

Place coconut and hot water in a  blender and cover securely. Allow to sit for a few minutes before blending so the liquid does not overflow the blender and burn your hands.

Step 3

Puree coconut and water in the blender.

Step 4

Line the sieve with a layer or two of cheesecloth and place in a medium sized bowl.

Step 5

Pour the coconut puree into the sieve and press the liquid into the bowl using a rubber spatula or the back of a large spoon. When the pulp has been pressed dry, add a little more water to the pulp and press again.

Step 6

Place liquid in a medium-size saucepan and bring up to a boil over high heat, stirring constantly. The coconut oil will separate from the cream and the water will evaporate.

Step 7

When the separated and curdled cream has browned, strain the liquid oil through the kitchen sieve into a container. Cover and allow to cool off then pour them into containers and store in a cool place.

It’s really that easy to make coconut oil. Please visit my blog to read about easy breezy natural hair maintenance. ‘Drop the brand and focus on the product’


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Heiress to the Hair…….


Our hair is our crown. the very definition of whom we are or aspire to be. clean cut, tomboy, curly, straight, long or short to name a few help create a certain persona. We like to get creative with our hair, using weaves, extensions, braids/plaits to achieve these looks. in the midst of all the diverse styles nowadays we neglect our own natural hair so why don’t we talk about that shall we?……


black woman hair breakage
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  Now let us nappy haired ladies celebrate ourselves for making one of the best decisions we probably have made recently….HEALTHY HAIR!!! CHEMICAL FREE!! HURRAY WE DID IT!! now i know it’s not easy to brush the terribly shrunk, thick or curly hair but i am going to talk about all the steps and routines that worked for me at least. I hope it works for yours as well.

    My hair texture is soft, curly and most of all sensitive so back then when i would relax my hair it would get extra soft and just break mercilessly. It didn’t matter how well i had oiled it or played by the ‘rules’ it just kept breaking and never grew. Out of frustration, i cut my hair and decided to go natural. anyways fast forward to the good stuff.. i read about natural hair and how to grow it and that long process everyone talks about.. too lazy to do all that so here are my treatment regimens. I hope it works for you.


Personally i don’t wash my hair with shampoo. any form of shampoo has sulphate in it and that dries out my hair and causes breakage and even if it doesn’t break my hair, it would give me a dry scalp (dry in the sense that my scalp can’t retain oil, it dries out). so instead i condition my hair three times and then deep condition or a wash and go (basically leave-in conditioner). i like to use a lot of products in my hair when i wash so i make a mixture of some oils i’d be talking about later on when i condition my hair. it’s not scientifically proven but i feel like it just works on my hair growth a lot more this way (female Intuition) 🙂 🙂 😉

After i wash and dry my hair, i have a formula. this formula is to be used regularly.

-100% Coconut Oil (i make mine,view next post for a ‘HOW-TO’)images

-Almond Oil


-Olive Oil


-Jojoba Oil


-Argan Oil


-At least two or three hair growth creams


-Pink Oil (they don’t really make them anymore but ‘motions’ is a good recommendation)


i mix these products portioned in a jar and make sure it’s properly blended and then use that on my scalp and tips everyday. the secret to getting best results are to eat a lot of fruits and to use this mixture religiously. when we have weaves on it’s harder but try to reach your scalp and oil it. Also, if you have a similar hair texture to mine avoid applying pressure to the frontline of the hair as in tight corn rows for weaves, braids etc.. it saves you from losing your front hair so easily. i recommend a co-wash every week or two.

Let’s Go Over All We Have Learnt Shall We?

-Avoid Shampoos like a plague

-Condition more

-Oil your scalp….ALOT LOT LOT….

-Wash your hair often= Don’t keep weaves in for too long.


make sure you steam and do the hot oil treatment often…it helps to retain moisture and keep your scalp healthy. and also trim your tips to keep your hair healthy. Ouuu one more thing…. if your hair is too thick you could spray it with a little water before you brush it. it prevents breakage.

                        SO THERE YOU HAVE IT!!! GO FORTH AND GROW YOUR HAIR!!!

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   This song Bitch Bad by Lupe Fiasco is so important to this generations mentality. Its a double standard set out there unconsciously we are played into it. read and i hope you enjoy.

Bitch bad, woman good, lady better. Now imagine there’s a kid, maybe five or four years old riding round with his mother listening to the radio then a song comes on and not far off from being born, he doesn’t know the difference between right and wrong. Not to make it too complex, let’s just say shawty has an undeveloped context about the perception of women these days. His mother sings along and this is  what she says :-

and other rhyming words like cabbage and savage and baby carriage and other things that match it. Couple of things that are happening here, First he’s relating the word “bitch” with his mama, comma and because she’s relating to herself, his most important source of help, and mental health, he may skew respect for dishonor.

     Now imagine a group of little girls nine through twelve on the internet watching videos listening to songs by themselves
It doesn’t really matter if they have parental clearance cos they understand the internet better than their parents. Being the interent, the content’s probably uncensored, they’re young, so they’re maleable and probably unmonitored. A complicated combination, maybe with no relevance. Until that intelligence meets their favorite singer’s preference
“Bad bitches, bad bitches, bad bitches that’s all I want and all I like in life is bad bitches, bad bitches”. Now let’s say that they are less concerned with him and more with the video girl acquiescent to his whims. Ah, the plot thickens, High heels, long hair, fat booty, slim. Reality check, I’m not tripping
They don’t see a paid actress, all they see is just what makes a bad bitch.

            Disclaimer: This rhymer, Lupe’s not usin’ bitch as a lesson but as a psychological weapon to set in your mind and really mess with your conceptions, discretions, reflections, it’s clever misdirection cause, while I was rappin’ they was growing up fast nobody stepped in to ever slow them up, gasp! Sure enough, in this little world the little boy meets one of those little girls and he thinks she a bad bitch and she thinks she a bad bitch. He thinks disrespectfully, she thinks of that sexually. She got the wrong idea, he don’t wanna fuck her. He thinks she’s bad at being a bitch like his mother. Momma never dress like that, come out the house, hot mess like that. Ass, titties, dress like that. All out to impress like that. Just like that, you see the fruit of the confusion. He is caught in a reality, she is caught in an illusion. Bad mean good to her but she is really nice and smart but bad mean bad to him, bitch don’t play your part but bitch still bad to her if you say it the wrong way but she think she a bitch, what a double entendre.
Bitch bad, woman good, lady better, they misunderstood. You’re misunderstood. Bitch bad, woman good, lady better, greatest motherhood.


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Christmas Fever…

 Its the month wishes are made, new hopes and resolutions are made for the new year. December smells like cinnamon and fabric, Its my favorite time of the month. The only time when shop-aholics are allowed to splurge without the guilt trap hunting them down. this is a message from me to you.. have a very spirited month n a beautiful christmas, hoping that the year ahead will be in our favor. stay blessed bloggers.. Love.

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The thought that became…

So dolls I have decided to re-brand my lifelong dream job.. fashion designing for those of  you who don’t know :). the label that is Chislev. never heard of it before?
Oh well, Chislev is a dragonlance god that embodies the act of instinct, wild ones and the beast mother. She believes the soul grows by releasing thought and instinct, and giving in to primal urges. She is the power of the natural world and all things wild. Just like Chislev, I embody these same traits.. I am basically a Chislev evolution. embodying the wild ones that dare to be simply AMAZING! those are true fashion trendsetters *wink*. not just dress making, Chislev is the label that will change the business and lifestyle that is fashion. So many surprises up for you birdies it makes the hardwork worth it.
Right so now that you know.. i’m going to get back to work! what is the first thing an aspiring designer should do to start out her label? I think it should be creating a team of brilliant minds. I would love to hear your thoughts….
Mode J’adore!
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African Prints…the whole nine Yards!!!

It’s so exciting to wear such beautiful garment, i got dressed up in african print attire today and i had so much fun through out the day wearing it YAY! i got so many compliments it was amazing…okay i’d stop gushing now and tell you about the outfit and what exactly im dolled in…

Yoruba (tribe in Nigeria) females have an extravagant style and so they wear a head tie called the ‘gele’ and a  top with a wrap round bottom called the ‘Iro and buba’…i was dolled in a mordern version of this traditonal garment called ‘Oleku’ which can be worn anyhow you prefer..the wrapper can be worn as a long skirt or as a short skirt….Ladies pick up a beautiful print material and start rocking this fab outfit! i know i was in fashion heaven wearing the garment :*

PS:- It was a really busy day i couldnt take that many pictures. Sorry dolls. :*

How do i look?

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Artistic words for my addiction…

The fashionable body is due for a change,

And over the years has encountered a range,

Of shapes and sizes dictated by trends,

Because the quest for vogue never ends…

With a riot of colors she was born to wear,

The fashion cognoscenti all stop and stare,

At those long skinny legs and the prominent beak,

Of a strutting peacock at her artistic peak..

Wrapped in its beauty with a ribbon and a bow,

Deception is the veneer of what you don’t know,

And unless your imagination is completely denied,

It’s a package so pretty but empty inside.

No style or variation in the way we dress,

Fashion has lost its unbounded excess,

And in the sea of bodies not one surprise,

If everyone was born to wear the same size!

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You can buy clothes….but you cant buy swag!

Morning Birdies! do you ever think that someone else is gonna rock that beautiful dress better than you would just before you buy it at the store? Like a mental competition with imaginary shopperholics like you? Yeah I do that too. haha! That just makes it that much more interesting cos i’d want to kill the outfit with the perfect accessories and I wouldn’t lazy shop too. I think it’s healthy in a way because i wouldn’t leave the mall till i find a good bargain and WIN my mental competition. I mean what fashionista likes to loose? 

        How about the celebrities that don’t go to the malls by themselves,how are they going to win the competition when infact it’s a real life competition for them? 😦 celebrities are found wearing the same garments and dresses at red carpet events or even on a casual day. I know I’m routing for my top style icons though! I mean who can rock an outfit better than my girl Robyn Rihanna Fenty!.. Who wore it better? I think rihanna wins….All day!


J-Lo looks like a bag of Chips…snorreee

from the hair to the shoes… Robyn is swag!

Riri owns those shoes! swaggg

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We Love Ora in Fashion city ^_^

She’s diverse,Outlandish and classy. My own fashion role can tell that she’s clearly living the fashion doll dream! My own dream….droooolll… Rita Ora is a British raised Kosovo born 22year old, singer,actress and songwriter. She’s so awesome she rose to stardom in her early years. her style is so amazing I think i said that already haha! Do you love her too or what?! she can rock the casual outlandish look and keep it classy at the end of the day! I wanna be like Rita Ora style gods hear my fashion prayers! let’s say the fashion prayer together,remember the one i posted up earlier on my blog? *one minute silence* Amennnnn

Mode J’adore!

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Fashion DOs and Fashion Don’t even think about it guys…

The awesome thing about fashion is that everyone can make it their own. It’s like writing a personal statement everyday and we all have our fashion musts and fashion Must Not!!! these are mine..i mean i love shoes to the death but there are some shoes id never be caught dead in…even if my style evolves or on my wedding day.. they are strappy shoes (dont know a tehnical name for those x_x). there are only a few i can manage like:

You’d probably tell that im a bit of Edge and class bottled up in one. One of the main reasons why i don’t like the kind of strappy heels I’m about to share with you guys is that i’ve got slim and long feet so they wouldn’t really look fab on me. Always remember to study your body and work with what best suits you. That way you can build on your style and create a unique look for yourself. You have a unique body, one that no one else in the world has just like you so make the world a beautiful place by creating a new and exciting look! GO AND BE THE FABULOUS TRENDSETTER LADIES! NOUS AIMONS LA MODE,N’EST-CE PAS?


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